One of the first real lessons you have to learn when you’re first starting Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is not to fight force with force.  ”Jiu jitsu” (or “ju jitsu”) literally translates from the original Japanese as “gentle art”, but it’s not because we all just want to slowly, gently hug one another on the mats; instead, the name describes the underlying philosophy of BJJ to a tee:  when faced with a worthy adversary, don’t try to overpower the force, but instead move around it.  When faced with something more powerful than you, get out of the way.  When pushed, pull; when pulled, push.

Brazilian Jiu Jitsu has changed my life immeasurably over the last 15 years or so.  My story will sound familiar to anyone else who has been training for more than a year or two, and it is my hope with sharing this story that many will understand that the philosophy applies not only on the mats, but also in real life.

It took a while for me to learn the lessons and actually apply them with life.  Like most young adults (early 20s), I was pretty angry a lot of the time.  I was passionate about social issues, politics, personal interactions with my friends, and just about anything else that presented itself to me.  I shook my fist at the establishment, wrote songs about how angry I was, and envisioned things changing one day, without any kind of concrete idea of how to make it happen- just a lot of angst.

When I started jiu jitsu, I gradually began to see things in a new light.  There were certain things that, no matter how hard I tried, I wasn’t going to change in the immediate future.  One example is the rather childish approach I took to owing money to the city for parking tickets.  I viewed the city’s overly aggressive approach to ticketing ignorant citizens like myself as wrong, and I refused to pay tickets.  Well, guess what?  I ended up owing a lot more money and going through a lot more angst because of my attitude.

Before I go any further, I need to make a disclaimer here.  I’m not suggesting that wanting to enact change is a bad thing, or childish, or foolish.  It’s not.  What’s immature – futile, even- is the attitude that you’re not going to go with the flow when faced with insurmountable obstacles.

As I grew older, I was frequently faced with analogous examples in my personal and professional life where rolling with the punches (another term that aptly describes the BJJ philosophy, although I’m borrowing it from boxing here) would help me get through some tough times. The ability to shrug your shoulders and move forward when faced with a huge, unexpected bill, for example, is incalculably valuable. When a loved one betrays you, moving forward with life is made possible in many ways by realizing that life will move on with or without that person. Going with the flow lets you get on with your life, and even benefit from tough times in the long run. Retrospect is a powerful tool.

The best personal example that comes to mind is from about 2007 when I was living in a house that I loved.  The place was perfect for me at the time- spacious, historic (I love older houses), and close enough to everything in the city so that I could walk to a few places if I chose.  I had been at this house for about three years when a new owner purchased the place (I was renting).  Six uneventful months went by before the roof began to leak.  I reached out to the landlord on several occasions, and he said he would fix it, but (long story short) I got the runaround from him.  Things got bad enough so that it was essentially raining inside my house.  I eventually went to court, put my rent in escrow, and got it all back before moving out.  That rent money became part of a down payment on a house I would buy the following year.

Instead of bearing futile anger at the situation, I essentially allowed things to take their course.  Looking back, it was relatively easy to get my rent money back because I was patient, and I took the appropriate legal channels to accomplish what I needed.

The more time I spent on the mats, the better I understood that I had to get out of the way of certain things, both in life and on the mats.  The better I got at jiu jitsu, the better I understood that life’s waves are made to be ridden, not faced head on.  Enjoy your time on the mats, and take the lessons home with you.  It will make your life more enjoyable and productive.

Oh- and if you don’t understand the article’s title, please immediately watch the following video when you have an hour and a half to kill:

Author:  Aaron Lapointe, Carlson Gracie Jiu-Jitsu Black Belt

One of the best things about jiu-jitsu is that it can work for almost anyone as long as you put in the time and effort and make the proper adjustments. I’ll use myself as an example. Even though my right arm is fully paralyzed, I was still able to achieve my black belt in jiu-jitsu and compete in some of the world’s most prestigious tournaments. Sure I was fortunate to have learned from some of the biggest legends in the sport; I will talk about them in a separate write-up. Even so, a large part of my success was directly related to the fundamentals of jiu-jitsu and the inherent ability we all have to overcome physical and emotional roadblocks.

Sometimes an apparent limitation is a blessing in disguise because it pushes you to find the simplest and most efficient way of doing something. Whereas some people might perform a technique by following steps 1 through 5, someone who is unable to do steps 3 and 4 might discover that the same end result can be achieved in fewer or alternative movements.  Because the margin for error is much smaller when you have a disability, your movements need to be timely and precise. In addition, a significant limitation in one area can help promote a major strength in another. Because I was unable to use my right arm to stop people from passing my guard, I developed excellent hip movement, a strong grip, and proficient use of my hooks. I also had to develop a strong base and keen sense of balance so I would not be easily swept to my right. Most importantly, I acquired an advanced understanding of the basic principles that make jiu-jitsu work. For example, sweeps work because you disrupt a person’s base and prevent him or her from reestablishing it, not because you put your foot in a certain position or grab the collar in a specific way.

Some people think my jiu-jitsu would be even better if I could use both arms. I’m not so sure about that. In fact I kind of doubt it. The only thing I do know is that my jiu-jitsu would be different, and most likely those areas that are essential to my game (e.g., hip movement) would be much less developed. Not only did my disability help shape my jiu-jitsu, but it also motivated me to train hard and establish a “never say die” attitude. Unfortunately, this drive and attitude was not always a good thing since the playful side of jiu-jitsu sometimes escaped me. Nowadays I train jiu-jitsu because it’s fun, not because I feel the need to prove myself on the mat.
If you train jiu-jitsu long enough you’re bound to roll with someone who has a physical disability. Heck, we all have physical limitations of one kind or another. Some are just more obvious than others. Regardless of what that limitation is, I offer these words of advice. Help that person work around his or her disability, but don’t feel the need to try and simulate it when you spar. If your partner only has one arm you don’t need to roll with one arm tucked in your belt. If your partner is blind you don’t need to roll with your eyes closed. If you outweigh your partner by 75 pounds, you don’t need to jump in the sauna. You get my point. Hopefully, many of you out there already adjust your games accordingly depending on who you are rolling with. Generally speaking, you don’t spar the same way with everyone, and if you do you may want to reconsider that strategy. If your partner has a physical limitation, refrain from making any special accommodations without asking first. Don’t worry, that person will be just fine. Jiu-jitsu will make sure of it!

Anyone with questions or comments for Aaron can reach him at aaronlapoi@yahoo.com.

 

 

 

This month at Revolution BJJ, we explore the position that has become synonymous with Brazilian Jiu Jitsu to many:  the closed guard.  There are a myriad of fundamental attacks you can throw at your partner from this position.  All month long, we will cover attacks, defenses, and counters from the ever-important closed guard.

On Mondays and Wednesdays at our gym, we will begin our new Fundamentals Program.  At 5:30 PM, the eight week basics of BJJ course will be taught to a broad audience, designed so that everyone can walk away with a better understanding of jiu jitsu- and a great workout.

Leglocks in a grappling competition can quickly turn the tide on the outcome of a match.  In the blink of an eye, one competitor can go from being apparently dominated to having his arm raised via submission win.  But there are a few things you should know before you go to your club and try to practice getting good at these things.

The first- most important- thing to know about leglocks is that they are dangerous without proper education.  With the right supervision and understanding, leglocks can be practiced as safely as armlocks.  However, that’s a big problem for most gyms.  There is very little education available at many traditional BJJ schools because the instructor either simply doesn’t know much about leglocks, or he or she feels they are too dangerous to be practiced at all.  Some gyms take a hard line on the latter approach and impose rules such as “no leglocks at all below purple belt.”  This is actually the most dangerous approach of all, because it breeds fear, not understanding.

The second thing to know about leglocks is that they shouldn’t be thought of as exchanging one’s position for a hail Mary shot at finishing a match.  This is contrary to the strategy of every single high level leg-locker I’ve ever had the opportunity to discuss the subject with.

Now, once you’re past the “disclaimers” (see also the article on 5 Myths about Leglocks), here’s the heart of the matter.  Leg attacks can help you win a fight you might otherwise lose.  Perhaps the best example of this in MMA is Masakazu Imanari vs Mike Brown:

 If you look around enough, you’ll find dozens of examples of this happening in a grappling match.  However, there is one match that sticks out in my mind as the turning point for leglocks in sport BJJ (with the gi).  Before 1999, leg attacks were widely booed in BJJ competition in Brazil.  However, that all changed to some degree with one brutal submission:  a toe hold by Rodrigo “Comprido” Medeiros against “Roleta” Roberto Magalhães.  This wasn’t just any match, either- it was the finals of the absolute division at black belt, the most important match of the year for both of these great competitors.  Roleta’s guard was considered by many to be unpassable.  It was ridiculously crafty and innovative.

Comprido showed the limitations by popping on a super fast toe hold.  It was a real wake-up call for those of us who let our feet dangle in the open guard back then, and the beginning of my personal education in leglock safety.  Check out 1:17 at the video below:

A new generation of competitors in the US, Brazil, Japan, and all over the rest of the world continue to improve the ever-evolving leglock game.  If you can safely integrate these attacks into your arsenal, you can overcome a grappler who might otherwise have your number.  Be sure to practice leglocks safely and often!

Note: this is an impromptu follow-up to the excellent article, Immersion in BJJ.

Some people like to have a physical symbol of goals or landmarks in their professional or personal lives.  For some folks, it’s a tattoo that reminds them of a lost loved one, or motivates them to stay sober.  For others, it’s a photograph from an earlier time in life, or something written in pen on the back of one’s hand.  For me, it was my hair.

Beginning with my blue belt, in 2002, I started growing my hair out with each new belt I got.   The principle was simple:  I was starting over with each new rank in BJJ.  When I got my purple belt in 2003, all of my shoulder-length hair was chopped off, leaving me completely bald.  By the time I got my brown belt in 2006, all that was left of  my glorious long hair was a crummy rat tail, so we cut that off (see the picture).   In 2008, I was awarded the high honor of black belt in BJJ under Julio “Foca” Fernandez with Eric Burdo, so Burdo and I headed to his house afterward and shaved my head bald once again, although we went through plenty of incredibly goofy hairstyles along the way:  mullett, skullett, clown hair, horseshoe, and finally Mr. Clean.

Like the biblical Samson, I grew “stronger” (more confident) with each belt level as a competitor.  By the time I was promoted, I was confidently trampling through the competition scene at my current belt.  Sure, I lost matches during this period, but the losses were offset by the much bigger wins, and I was bursting with confidence at every tournament.

Of course, starting over (with the new belt) was always humbling.  While the hair helped with dominating the lower belt, the next belt up was a challenge.  I really liked that:  it was all new to me, and there was no pressure.

This wasn’t always easy to maintain.  On the contrary, I hated having long hair.  HATED.  My training partners would put their knees on my hair to inadvertently pin my neck to the mats; my hair was always getting pulled out from collar chokes.  Nevertheless, I don’t look back with regret in any way on my personal journey through ridiculous hair and amazingly fun jiu jitsu.

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